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May tao kang nakilala. May taong dumating sa buhay mo. Hanggang sa makilala nyo pa ng lubusan yun isa’t isa. Nagkaroon ng panahon para sa isa’t isa. Nagkamabutihan. Naging komportable sa isa’t isa. Hanggang sa nagkasakitan na. Umiyak, tumahan, naging maayos ulit. Paulit ulit lang. Di nagtagal, iniwan ka na. Binago niya yun sarili mo, pagkatao mo, lahat lahat sa buhay mo. Nang iwan ng walang dahilan. Meron man, hindi mo naman maisip kung ano, kung bakit. Yun taong akala mo magiging permanente sa buhay mo, hindi pa pala, napadaan lang kumbaga. Kahit kailan, hindi na babalik pa. Alaala nalang yun iniwan nya, na kahit kailan hindi mabubura.. kasi nasa puso mo na. Yun taong yun, parte nalang ng nakaraan mo. Hindi na kayo nagkikita, nagkakausap, nagkakamustahan. Parang nung umpisa.. nung mga panahong hindi pa kayo magkakilala. Walang pakealam sa isa’t isa. Dumaan ka, dumaan siya.. parang wala lang. In short, Strangers Again.

Right. Left. Right. Left.

Hahahahaha!!

Alam mo yun pakiramdam kapag alam mong ikaw yun nasa tama pero di mo maipaglaban? Yun ikaw yun nagsasabi ng totoo pero di mo nalang ipagpipilitan na paniwalaan ka ng iba para matapos na lang. Mabigat na sa loob mo pero pinipigil mo yun sarili mo na sabihin yun nararamdaman mo. Maiiyak ka na lang ng patago, ng tahimik. Kasi pakiramdam mo nag-iisa ka lang. Tapos yun taong gusto mong damayan ka, di mo naman magawang kausapin kasi wala naman na kayo. Masakit, sobra.

Making your days so good that you eventually imagining some of your superheros who can make what your heart desire. Sometimes, what people really want is what they couldnt get and like superheroes they dont really exist but you dont actually need some superheroes like Superman who’s strong enough to defeat bad guys or Batman who have all the gadgets to protect you but because im here, the one who can make you smile all day. Talk all day and love you all day. Be the one who gives you hug and kisses randomly. Having bad and good times at your side. Holding your hands looking to your eyes and talking about how sweet our relationship does, Just never let me go like what i did to you. In life we all have the things we wanted to have. But its not meant for us maybe we would have it but not for long. What we could do is just appreciate what life is, we could just thank God for letting us have those things we have and still making our stories more even better. :)

Building relationships is essential for having a fulfilling life, but – as we all know – it’s not without its problems. Even close friendships could have problems every now and then. That’s why it’s important to learn about relationship problems and how to overcome them. While there are many relationship problems that could happen, I believe they boil down to just two. These are the basic problems that cause other problems in relationships. Here they are:

• 1. Misunderstanding

Misunderstanding is perhaps the most common problem in relationships. Sometimes your friends misinterpret what you do or say. Or it’s you who misinterpret them. Depending on the maturity of the people involved, such misunderstanding could be solved quickly or it could open the way to more serious problems.

 Misunderstanding is caused either by lack of quality or quantity in communication. You could spend a lot of time to communicate with your friends (for example, with your roommate), but if the quality of the communication is low then there is a good chance that misunderstanding will happen.

The problem could also happen because you and your friend don’t communicate often enough. If both parties are busy, they may not have the chance to communicate what they need or want which may eventually lead to misunderstanding.

• 2. Selfishness

Another common problem in relationships is selfishness. Perhaps both parties understand what the other party needs, but one or both of them are not willing to give it. They prefer to just keep it for themselves. In this case, the problem is lack of action instead of lack of understanding.

For example, it takes time to build relationships but we may be too busy to provide time for others. While we can’t generalize the case, being busy could be a form of selfishness. Just wanting to be understood without trying to understand is also a form of selfishness.

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These two basic problems cause many other relationship problems. Being judgmental, for instance, is often caused by selfishness. We want others to meet our expectations and we blame them when they don’t.

Angercould be caused my misunderstanding. You may think that your friend does something bad to you while she actually doesn’t intent to. Perhaps she does you good but you misinterpret it. Misunderstanding causes us to misinterpret positive as negative.

These two relationship problems may seem simple, but solving them requires serious effort. It may take years or even lifetime to learn how to solve them. But being aware of them is a good first step because we can’t win a war if we don’t even know the enemy.